Long Ago

Remember when I posted more than once every other year. Wow! It’s been almost two years since I’ve been away. I’ve been busy catching up with life, as I officially am a senior citizen. I’m in year two of Medicare. Haha.

It’s pakalana season

I’m not sure what to do with the Chronicles of Princess Hot Flash. It’s probably time to shut it down. Not posting for two years is probably a big sign to close it down. I think I have a few more posts in me. I’ll make a decision after that.

What’s been going on in my life

Life has become more sedate since my mom passed away. I’m trying my best to keep Dad safe and fed. He will turn 98 this July. He is still at it with word finds, solitaire on the iPad, napkin-making from paper towels, and, on occasion, he breaks into a rendition of “Aloha Oe,” which he learned in school many years ago. He had a big fall in February while I was on vacation. My sister and brother-in-law were with him. After a stay in rehab, he’s back with a little more adjustment to his care. He still wants to be as independent as he can.

I went on a winter vacation in February to Yellowstone, Arches, and Canyonlands National Parks. I miss snow, so I dragged three friends with me. We spent three nights at the Snow Lodge in Yellowstone, with snowcoach rides, geyser viewing, wildlife sightings, hiking, stargazing, and snowshoeing. And the best thing was that the park was empty, except for the guests at the Snow Lodge and day visitors on snowmobiles.

Here are a few of my favorites from Yellowstone.


In between the Yellowstone and Arches, we tried our hand at dog sledding. What a great experience. I was standing behind the driver, terrified, and held on for dear life. Eventually got accustomed to the ride. The driver and dogs were fabulous.

I stood behind the driver — I didn’t think I could handle the dogs on my own.


We were off to Utah to Arches and Canyonlands National Park to see the fabulous rock formations. A lot of short walks, rock scrambling, and a couple of longer hikes made up for a stay in Moab. National parks are great in the off-season. The crowds and parking aren’t so crazy.

Me at the Delicate Arch right before sunset


What have I been working on?

This post will be too long if I give you a recap of what I’ve been working on over the last two years. Here are a few of my favorite finished projects.

I looked back at my photos to see what I’ve been working on, and it doesn’t seem like all that. Mostly to get rid of my fabric and yarn stash that could last 3 lifetimes. It doesn’t help that I’m a fabric hoarder these days, especially if it’s vintage and bright. I finished three quilt tops, two baby blankets, and a throw. I need to quilt and bind them off till they are done.

My supervisor, Orange the Cat, is watching me piece together the quilt tops and potholders on my vintage Singer 99K.


I wrote this section when I began this post in November 2025. I included it to show how my projects get done. Haha.


I’ve been giving my hands a rest from knitting and crocheting. They’ve been achy at night, making it hard to sleep. But in the past month, I’ve picked up a couple of old unfinished projects. I picked up my Hemlock Ring Doily Throw that I started in November 2024. I was making good progress and had reached the Feather and Fan chart when I noticed the stitch count was off. Ugh!


Guess what! I frogged (a knitting term for ripping it apart) the whole thing. I just wasn’t in the mood to find the mistake. But I did finish it just in time for our Annual Friends Gathering, and I used it for a door prize.

Hemlock Ring Doily Throw blocked and finished just in time for our Annual Friends Gathering as a door prize


I think I’ve caught you up with life. I hope to do a couple more posts in me. Maybe another hiking one before taking Princess Hot Flash down.

Life

from my morning walk

I originally started this post as a “whoa is me” post to complain about unemployment, not receiving my check, and sitting in the phone queue for 5+ hours. But I take that all back.

Yes, I am furloughed, I’m yet to receive a check from UI, I will be stuck in the phone queue until I settle this issue and my furlough has been extended to January 4th. But I can’t feel sorry for myself. That’s how you get stuck and curling up in a ball and not want to do nothing for yourself. Sometimes life is harder than you expected.

I told myself at the beginning of the furlough that I would make use to this time instead of festering and becoming bitter. It’s been a tough road, the unemployment situation doesn’t help a bit. But I still want to make the best of this time. When will I get this kind of time to do something for myself, to do something creative, to make something beautiful.

I decided to write this to remind myself I have this time to do for myself. To think about life and where it may take me. Here’s my list so far I hope I can complete some of it before the end of the year. I’ll be posting my progress and going ons at the home front with the my 4 roommates (haha).

  • make my aloha shirt patchwork quilt
  • learn to double knit
  • finish my strand work squares, on #8 half way there
  • start journaling
  • start my Etsy shop
  • learn how to use the watercolor pencils
  • walk more often
  • write letters
  • get rid of stuff I don’t use
  • plan my next hiking trip

2 years

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@ Hawaii Loa Photo by Jodie Roeca

2 years since Oat passed. 2 years being on my own since I met him 33 years ago. 2 years since the saddest day of my life. 2 of the hardest years of my 58 years.

I’m trying my best to carry on, working through things slow.

I’m keeping busy learning new things, quilting, stamping, preserving and spinning.

And making new friends and connecting with my old crew. Laughing, talking and just being silly as we enjoy each others company.

Oat would have enjoyed moving back to Hawaii with me. Maybe too much to do for him but so many opportunities for him to create a new costume photo shoot or a shelter we could use to go camping in. Who knows what he would have came up with all the stuff my dad has. He would have loved all of the tarps. Miss you.

Today’s Adventure

Quick and short post from West Oahu–Makua beach to Kaena point and back. Beautiful day, breezy, big surf, and great company as always.

Checking out the tidal pools or maybe getting a great shot of the ocean

Makua tidal pools

Natural Arch on the way to Kaena Point

Monk seal checking me out @Kaena Point

On way back

One of the many tidal pools on the trail

 

Beautiful Waianae Range–lush and green

Exhausted!

I’m finally done with my house but I’m helping my girlfriend (who is also moving to Hawaii after 34 years and 11 months) place ready to be put on the market. So it was 2 days of cleaning and painting.

Hopefully no more paint on me for a while. All I need to do is keep it clean (lots of take out) and if all the stars are lined up, someone else will fall in love with my house as Oat and I did.

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My hands are tired and sore from all the work I’ve done the past 2 weeks to get it ready.

But this weekend will be different. Visiting a friend I have seen in a while for hiking and a lot of catching up.